Tuesday, March 16, 2010
Is Kiddush Hashem A Mitzvah?
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
A Chassidic Tale
The following is a great story from a Chassidic friend:
He mentioned it to one of the Yerushalmi Chasidim who smiled and said that he couldn't attend the tisch like this and immediately removed his own gartle, found a sharp piece of metal at the bottom of the staircase they were in and cut his own gartel in two. Somehow the two half pieces fit them both just fine and they had a good laugh.
The Biala Chassid shared his feelings with me at this point mentioning,"suddenly that gartel became not just a tool for fulfilling halachah but also for fullfilling v'ahavta l'reachah kamocha(love your neighbor as yourself)." He soon thereafter bought them both new gartels although he continues to carry his half in his jacket pocket as a constant reminder to love his fellow Jew.
I really enjoyed this story not only for its twist but because he chose to take the experience and use it as a reminder.
One of the most important realizations we all need to come to is that being a Kiddush Hashem is not just about major acts that take a lot of work to build up to. It only takes consistent small acts to become a very bright light unto those around you. Here are some examples that I have personally witnessed in recent past:
- In the recent blizzard I was given a ride to work. When the driver saw a car stuck in the snow he immediately jumped out (motivating myself to follow) and physically pushed the car out of the pile of snow it was stuck in.
- A woman held a heavy door open for multiple people even though she was in a hurry. The extra few seconds didn't end up affecting her appointment.
- A man allowed someone with a few groceries to go ahead of him at the store since he was making a large purchase.
- Someone actually smiled and wished a sincere haztlacha when giving tzedakah to someone in need.
These achievements are attainable for all of us. All it takes is a bit of extra thought. It is very easy to pass by each of these opportunities; however, each involves not only inspiring others around them as a Kiddush Hashem but also potentially many other mitzvot as well.
Put a post it somewhere you look every morning ex: your siddur, tefillin etc. Start the day thinking how you can be thoughtful and do at least one small act to help another. Do it publicly, not for your sake, but for the purpose of inspiring others to do the same.
You should all be blessed with clarity and many mitzvah opportunities.
Omri
Sunday, January 31, 2010
The Beginning of a Great Endeavour
Throughout the weekend Rabbi Yaakov Solomon and Rabbi Yissocher Frand had given wonderful speaches on the importance of being a kiddush Hashem. I had just finished the Chofetz Chaim Foundation's Lesson A Day and thought that there should be something out there that is similar but reminds us all how many small actions can amount to a hugely positive impact on the image of frum Jews. So I began to ponder and get lots of input from my tzedekis of a wife and decided to put together this website.
There are two functions of the site. The first, which is already in place, is for this to be a forum for sharing stories as well as studies regarding kiddushei Hashem. We have already received and are hoping to receive many simple positive experiences either where a person was a kiddush Hashem or where they witnessed an act of kiddish Hashem. In terms of studies, I am quite limited in my knowledge on the topic and am continually searching for clarification of what a kiddush Hashem really is, what the rewards are for acting as one, what the consequences are for being a chilul Hashem, sources where the Torah specifically speaks on this topic etc.
Sunday, January 24, 2010
Israel in Haiti
I call it positive. Incredibly so. Not happy -- in fact, unspeakably painful. But a Kiddush HaShem: a blessing on G-d's name.
In the midst of the overwhelming death and destruction that is Haiti right now, there are Israelis who have come to save lives and offer succor.
On Friday, El Al and IDF planes came into Haiti, carrying 250 medical personnel -- doctors, nurses, lab and x-ray technicians and even a psychiatrist -- and supplies for the first mobile hospital, including a pharmacy, a surgical unit, and a maternity ward. A young Haitian mother who was the first to deliver in this ward, early this morning, named her baby Israel.
Members of ZAKA, the Israeli ultra-Orthodox volunteer rescue organization, were on the scene as well. Yesterday, on Shabbat, they labored, digging in the rubble of a collapsed multi-story university building, where cries were heard. After hours of effort, they succeeded in pulling eight students from that rubble, alive.
These ZAKA members then took time, in the midst of the chaos, to wrap themselves in their tallitot(prayer shawls) and recite their Shabbat prayers. Undoubtedly most if not all of the Haitians on the scene had never seen such a sight.
When the men had finished praying, a crowd of people gathered around them and kissed their tallitot.
According to one report, head of the ZAKA mission, Mati Goldstein said:
"With all the hell going on outside, even when things get bad Judaism says we must take a deep breath and go on to save more people."
"We did everything to save lives, despite Shabbat. People asked, 'Why are you here? There are no Jews here', but we are here because the Torah orders us to save lives…"
At one point, when things were very grim, Goldstein reported that one mission member started to sing, Heveinu Shalom Aleichem (We bring peace to you.) "I had tears in my eyes," he said.
The ZAKA mission will be staying in Haiti a couple more days, even though beyond a certain point it is highly unlikely that anyone else will be found alive under the rubble.
What is exceedingly important to the mission is making their Israeli identity very clear. And so, in this regard, you can help Israel by sharing this broadly and letting the world know what we are all about.
Jeff Wander